The people around us usually behaves in the normal pattern of society, the "normal" people world.
And they will not understand our quest;
They will try to stop us;
They will judge us;
They will push us away many times.
How can you handle all this?
You know, society, our communities are like a giant Tribe, all doing the same, moving the same direction and mostly, getting the same "poor quality life".
Our best strategy is to get out of that slow, no future Tribe and move into the "fast lane" of successful people.
But there's a catch...we move out of the Tribe, but we should let them think we are still there, with them.
That way we can grow and avoid confrontation, avoid fights and end up, in due time, attracting others to join us.
The worse thing we can do is getting out of the Tribe, towards our quest for success and start immediately pushing the ones around us to do the same...we will be creating an environment of judging, criticizing, and non supportive objections.
The name of the game is to ATTRACT, not Push.
Be smart, ignore objections, do not fight back.
Instead, work as hard and as fast as you can on creating your own results, cause this will be the most effective way to attract others and to make the Tribe accept and understand your choices and changes.
This is critical when it comes to family members and close friends. DO NOT PUSH THEM!
Attract them by generating attractive results on you as fast as you can.
Remember always to respect others choices. You are not the center of the world, you are only "right" according to YOUR perspective. It doesn't mean you will be right for others.
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