We all face disappointments and setbacks. Everyone has times in their life where they ask
themselves such questions as “is it
all worthwhile,” “am I really on the
right path” and “if so, why is it so
hard?”
These are not ordinary moments …
these are your destiny-defining
moments. These are moments
where the decisions you make
determine the path you take which
will lead you to your ultimate
destination. So when you find
yourself at one of life’s crossroads
ask yourself these three questions:
1. Do I love what I do? An old cliché
goes, “If you love what you do
you’ll never work a day in your
life” No one loves everything about
what they do. However, you must
love the core cause, the mission
behind what you do if you expect
any lasting success.
2. Do I have the talents to succeed at
it? This is a good question because
you may love what you’re doing but have no chance at ever being
successful at it. If you don’t believe
me just watch American Idol. You
must be brutally honest with
yourself when you ask this
question. You must also solicit the
opinions of people you trust who
will be brutally honest with you.
3. Does what I’m doing offer me the
potential to achieve my social and
economic goals? You may love
what you do and have the talent to
do it, but there’s no potential in it.
An example is Will Smith trying to
sell high-powered X-ray machines
in The Pursuit of Happiness. That
would almost be like trying to sell
high-powered fax machines or
starting a new automobile company
today. What you’re doing must
have opportunity and potential.
If you answered “NO” to any of
these questions you need to do as
we say in Texas: ”Dismount a Dead
Horse.” Change directions as
quickly as possible. Find something
you love to do that has potential
and that brings your talents to
light.
If you answered “YES” to all three
questions, chances are you’re just
in a lull. Or, as Seth Godin says,
you’re in The Dip. These life-
altering moments are when you
must Proceed and Succeed.
Remember that most of life’s
greatest victories are just inches
away from life’s biggest setbacks
and there’s always a way if you’re
committed. “This is the time to
keep your eye on the target, turn
up the heat and keep pressing
onward toward the prize.”
If you’ve experienced setbacks you
may have to analyze the situation
and try a different strategy. You
may have to get creative and think
out of the box. Remember that
Colonel Sanders was told “No” over
1,000 times before he sold his first
piece of Kentucky Fried Chicken.
Walt Disney was rejected over 300
times by bankers who thought his
idea of Mickey Mouse was absurd.
Thomas Edison found over 10,000
ways that didn’t work before he
invented the electric light bulb.
And, FedEx only shipped 4 packages
their first day.
So, as long as you have talent and
passion mixed with potential, you
can proceed confidently, knowing
that you will succeed because youon the right path and victory is
ahead.
Credits : Billy Cox
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